How to Make Yourself Inferior Sexually Around Women as a Beta Male

How to Make Yourself Inferior Sexually Around Women as a Beta Male

Today I want to talk to you about being a beta male and how you can embrace an inferior sexual role around women.

I know for many of you, the idea of being a beta sounds really unappealing. Our culture pushes this idea that men need to be ultra-confident, aggressive alpha males to be successful with ladies.

But the truth is, plenty of women out there are turned on by more submissive, feminine energy in a man.

Lots of you beta males probably feel insecure about your more mild-mannered personalities.

You might think you don’t stack up against those loud, musclebound alpha male types that seem to get all the attention.

But I’m here to tell you that your sensitive, caring beta traits can actually be a huge turn-on for the right kind of woman.

The key is owning your beta status instead of fighting against it.

So let’s talk about how you betas can lean into an inferior sexual role and make yourselves completely irresistible to women who crave more softness and vulnerability in their men.

I’m going to give you all my best tips on dressing, grooming, body language, conversation style, and bedroom behavior to maximize your beta appeal.

Get in Touch With Your Feminine Side

The first step to becoming a super appealing beta is to get comfortable expressing your feminine, submissive energy.

Don’t fight against those traditionally “girly” interests, emotions and personality quirks. Lean into them!

If you’re a guy who loves romcoms, romantic poetry, baking, gardening or anything else seen as feminine, own that!

Make those traditionally feminine hobbies a big part of your personal brand and the way you present yourself to the world.

Lots of women will find your touch of femininity incredibly alluring, especially if you’re with a more dominant, alpha female partner.

In terms of grooming and personal style, the goal is to make yourself look as pretty, soft and delicate as possible.

Well-maintained long hair, trimmed eyebrows, a clean shave, and clear, glowing skin will all help amplify your feminine radiance.

Don’t be afraid to use skincare products and light makeup either.

A little tinted moisturizer, concealer, lip balm and clear mascara can work wonders to bring out your natural beauty.

When it comes to clothes, stick to colors, fabrics and fits that accentuate your petite, gentle frame.

Fitted v-necks, skinny jeans, pastel tones, floral patterns, and lighter materials like linen will create a more ethereal, almost angelic look.

You can even try wearing typically feminine pieces like cardigans, ballet flats, or slim bracelets and necklaces if you really want to emphasize your soft, welcoming energy.

Cultivate an Adorable, Harmless Demeanor

Now that you’re tapping into your feminine essence through grooming and fashion, it’s time to match that exterior adorableness with an equally cute, non-threatening demeanor.

The key thing for beta males to remember is you want women to see you as the exact opposite of aggressive, intimidating “real man” energy.

Maintain a gentle, higher-pitched tone of voice and incorporate lots of polite language like “please,” “thank you” and “excuse me” into your speech patterns.

You can also throw in some squees, happy sighs, and other high-pitched verbal expressions of delight to seem extra sweet and innocent.

Just don’t overdo it to the point where you come off as mocking or insincere.

Your mannerisms and body language should also convey a profoundly harmless, almost childlike essence.

Keep your posture upright but rounded inwards slightly rather than puffing your chest out.

Smile constantly with a slight head tilt, and maintain a fair amount of eye contact without staring intensely.

Diminutive gestures like cradling your hands together, swaying or bouncing lightly on your feet, and keeping your knees turned inwards can help too.

When you’re out at bars, parties, anywhere men and women mingle, scan the room constantly for opportunities to rush over and enthusiastically help anyone who drops something, needs something carried, or looks even mildly troubled.

Don’t just jump into action though – always ask “May I help you with that?” or something similar in an eager but polite tone first.

Chivalry and random acts of service will make you seem like an absolute sweetheart.

In conversation, ask tons of thoughtful questions about the other person’s interests, then respond with oohs and ahhs of amazement at whatever they tell you.

Peppering them with genuine compliments on their looks and personality will score you big beta points too.

And if witty banter or fascinating personal anecdotes aren’t your strong suit, no worries!

Nodding, smiling, and gazing at them adoringly while they speak is a perfectly fine – and endearing – way to engage.

Be Submissive & Crave Approval

So you’re all dolled up in pretty clothes, batting your lashes, and exuding a completely harmless, cherubic vibe.

Now it’s time to really start deferring to any women you interact with and letting them take the lead.

Constantly put her wants and needs before your own.

Ask her opinion on everything from what bar to go to next, what movie looks good, or how she thinks you could improve your personal style or interests.

Then actually take her advice and insight fully to heart.

When she’s talking, occasionally interrupt her to ask clarifying questions and fully ensure you understand what she’s saying.

Make her feel heard and validated by hanging on her every word.

If she says something you disagree with, don’t argue or push back. Instead, ask her to explain her perspective more or say something like “Huh, I’ve never thought about it that way before.

Tell me more!”

Women are naturally turned off by arrogant know-it-alls, so make sure she understands you know she’s the wiser, more knowledgeable one.

Openly admitting when you’re confused about something, asking for her guidance, and actively deferring to her expertise and leadership will solidify your lovable beta persona.

In terms of physical intimacy, always wait for her to initiate affectionate touching and never make the first move to kiss or undress her.

In fact, it’s best if you don’t actually attempt to unclothe her at all – let her take the lead there too while you hang back and await instruction.

Once things progress to sex, make sure you’re constantly checking in to make sure you’re pleasing her and asked what she’d like you to do next.

Talk about your favorite submissive sexual activities like being blindfolded, tied up, sensory deprived, or completely worshiping her body without reciprocation.

Tell her you have a deep craving to be dominated, used for her pleasure and denied your own orgasms.

Betas who enthusiastically embrace an entirely selfish sexual experience for their partners are hugely appealing to alpha females who love being revered.

One other way to satisfy a dominant woman’s need for control? Give her your complete and unwavering obedience, even when you’re not being explicitly sexual.

Let her dictate what you eat, what you wear, how you style your hair and makeup, what activities you do together – basically let her take the reins over every aspect of your life.

Checking with her before making any minor decision, zealously following all her rules and instructions to the letter, and even having her regulate what personal freedoms you’re allowed like screen time or dessert consumption can be crazy hot.

A beta male’s greatest desire should be to make his partner feel completely pampered, worshipped and in command at all times.

It’s the ultimate intoxicating ego boost for the type of women who get off on having a man so enamored and unable to disobey them that they become their fully domesticated pretty pet.

If that sounds like your dream dynamic, stoke those submissive flames 24/7 and you’ll be irresistible.

Don’t Take Yourself Too Seriously

Last but not least, make sure you don’t take yourself too seriously as a strong, capable man.

Beta male humor often revolves around self-deprecating jokes that bemoan your lack of intelligence, physical strength, sexual prowess, decision-making skills – essentially any traditionally masculine traits and abilities.

Don’t be afraid to really play up your moments of forgetfulness, clumsiness, cowardice, naivety or prettiness for a laugh.

You can even go so far as to make fun of your own sexual inferiority and celebrate your inability to please a woman as an alpha male could.

Maybe share a humorous anecdote about prematurely ejaculating within 15 seconds and then profusely thanking a past partner for her sarcastically lukewarm review of your skills.

Or lament about the time you burst into tears after struggling and failing to open a jar of pickles because you’re just so dainty and feeble.

Stories that transform traditionally emasculating experiences into endearing punchlines are pure gold for the beta male aesthetic.

Don’t be afraid to indulge in plenty of stereotypically feminine emotional expressions either.

If you’re overcome with feelings of sadness, delight, frustration or any other big emotion, go ahead and cry, squeal, stomp your feet or have a total meltdown.

Getting overexcited about small pleasant surprises or little gifts and squeeing with unbridled glee is hugely appealing too.

The more outsize, dramatic reactions you can have, the more adorably juvenile and non-threatening you’ll seem.

Beta males who are unafraid to be the self-deprecating butt of the joke while reveling in overblown emotional outbursts convey the crucial message that they’re harmless, pliable pretty things without taking themselves too seriously as powerful, competent men.

It’s an intoxicating show of vulnerability and anti-masculinity that plenty of women find irresistible in a partner.

So there you have it guys – my top tips for how to fully embrace your submissive beta male energy and make yourself irresistibly appealing to women who crave a more feminine, obedient partner.

It’s all about amplifying your softer personas in terms of grooming, fashion, mannerisms, conversation style and sexual behavior while actively deferring to female partners as the respected authority figures.

Don’t fight against traditionally emasculating experiences or personality traits either.

Own those qualities and play them up for laughs to cement just how delightfully non-threatening and incompetent you are.

At the end of the day, the most desirable beta males are the ones who wholeheartedly revel in their status as the weaker, inferior male completely unashamed to indulge their naturally feminine leanings.

I know a lot of this probably sounds intimidating if you’re just starting to explore betahood.

But trust me, committing to this lifestyle and being unapologetically effeminate, submissive and sexually subservient can be a hugely liberating and rewarding experience for the right man.

So go forth and get in touch with your soft, pretty side, you delicate little flowers!

I promise there are lots of powerful, sexy alpha women out there just waiting to cherish you in all your meek, subservient glory.

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